ECM Chatroom

[Blackhawk]

Jonathan hit it right on the head. You don't need the drama nor the stress, Big Mike. Let her go for good.

[exelr8]

She really is still stuck in the high school mentallity, She is one of those girls that thinks she is hott shit and no one else is as hott as her. If I throw up facts that would usually cut a girl to the bone it does not phase her she is a heartless bitch. I retract that, She has a heart of Ice, so cold I get shivers from the cold and she is miles and miles away from me at the moment(thank god). You guys are right I need her out of my life. I am hoping this time she finally takes the hint that I want her completely out of my life, like for good. I do not wish the terror that is Holly upon even my most hated of enemies. Jt, You are right I do not need the Stress nor the Drama in my life right now on top of working 80hrs. every 2 weeks I am on call while I am not at work as a volunteer rescue personel. All this Drama=FML haha. Thanks for the support guys. I have come to realize, I spend more time on here than I do with my family but then again I spend more time with the guys at work than I do with my family so it evens out lol.

[timot_one]

I've found an effective method of getting girls to leave me alone is fairly simple as far as what I can do.  I have only done this once, but found it somewhat effective.  I basically just said that I didn't want to talk to her any more or be friends.  I told her to not call me, write me, email me, or visit me, and if she did, I would ignore her.  Obviously, that's harder to do when you both run in similar circles.

[Abailey4]

Just ignore her. I had to do that with a crazy ex that kept getting my phone numbers and emails.  Me still caring for her at the time would entertain it by sometimes responding or actually picking up the phone but all in all the only way to rid yourself of the ongoing stress is to just cut her off completely.  If you guys end up in the same place at the same time ignore her, if she walks up to you and tries to talk ignore her.  Believe me that hurts more than anything you'll ever be able to say.

[exelr8]

I wish my verizon bill was not already high otherwise I would pay the extra 5 dollars a month to have her blocked. I Have been ignoring her. Thanks for the Advice guys . I have already told her not to contact me again and i will tell her that one more time before A co-worker and I go to 601(the jail) and swear out warrants for harassment. I almost did this the last time we "broke up" lol I guess you could almost consider it a break up hahahaha

[Mike]

What type of phone do you have. On alot of the newer phone you can have  a specific number sent right to voice mail all the time, and then just don't listen to here messages it's just as effective as blocking her

[exelr8]

I have a LG Decoy... If it has such feature How does one set it?

[CrackerTeg]

I've found an effective method of getting girls to leave me alone is fairly simple as far as what I can do.  I have only done this once, but found it somewhat effective.  I basically just said that I didn't want to talk to her any more or be friends.  I told her to not call me, write me, email me, or visit me, and if she did, I would ignore her.  Obviously, that's harder to do when you both run in similar circles.

Did that several times.

Just ignore her. I had to do that with a crazy ex that kept getting my phone numbers and emails.  Me still caring for her at the time would entertain it by sometimes responding or actually picking up the phone but all in all the only way to rid yourself of the ongoing stress is to just cut her off completely.  If you guys end up in the same place at the same time ignore her, if she walks up to you and tries to talk ignore her.  Believe me that hurts more than anything you'll ever be able to say.

I had the same situation with an ex. Did the same shit with her. Just ask my wife. She was with me when I did it.  

[Mike]

I have a LG Decoy... If it has such feature How does one set it?

I know that on my HTC G1 it's in the phone book setting as an option with the number. Same way you would add a picture or a ring tone for a specific person in my application. I'm not familiar with your phone.

[Mike]

Had the chance to attend a game at Fenway Last night seats were amazing, and it was a perfect night. Photo below is from our seats 11 row's or so behind the plate great time.

[Blackhawk]

Looks like a good time, Mike

[Mike]

It was an amazing time I took the Gf, her dad, and sister. I go to alot of Boston sporting events, and this was one of the best times i've ever had. Red Sox fan or not everyone that remotly likes baseball should attened a game at fenway.

[rocketstarter]

Well, i have succeeded in part by getting a problem person out of my life. But, She will inevitably come back to me crying with the same "I love you" and "you're my best friend" crap. I will have to say, we were best friends and very close but not dating and when she moved away to school she has changed a lot. When she is home, if I do not devote my entire schedule outside of work to her I am being told I am a shitty Friend and a Shitty person and all we end up doing is arguing. Now to make things even worse her and My best friend who is like a brother to me who is in on leave from Iraq and leaves tomorrow are dating. I tried to warn him about her and warn her about him since I know how they both are. That just caused a bunch of drama and practically ruined our trip to PCB. Well, he invited her to go on this trip with us and the others going as well as myself were unhappy about it. Once she got there, I did my best to mask my discomfort with her being there. When we returned from dinner(before she got there), I texted her in attempts to make peace and she told me that I did not mean it. Later we all went for a walk on the beach and he did not answer his phone so she called me and was raising hell with me. I was livid, to say the least. Not I finally got her to leave me alone, How do I keep her away? Sorry for writing so damn much I just have a lot on my mind and needed to get a lot of it out. Thanks for reading!

-Big Mike

*End Rant*

best advice? stop talking to her. Otherwise one of 2 things is gonna happen:

A) I'm gonna ride up on my 3.0 frame and kick your fucking ass back on track

B) She'll corner you with her immature stupidity and you're gonna do somethignreally fucking stupid


I was in that situation once when I was 17. I snapped at the girl at school, when I came back to myself I was handcuffed. Take my advice. Or get ready for an ass-kicking.

[rocketstarter]

didn't do anything violent BTW. I don't hit the other sex. However I lost my voice for the next few days.

[exelr8]

You are lying thru yer tooth matt. You beat the shit out of that Amee girl at the meet and kept yelling dumb cunt that was my water