ECM Chatroom

[CrackerTeg]

Cough.....paternity test.....cough cough

Along with that, didn't shit go sour because of her tripping, falling and landing on some other dude? IJS. A positive pharmacy pregnancy test means absolute shit in my eyes because of that. Once ties are cut, they stay cut.

[accordguy04]

^This.

[Mike]

Chris be careful. This has all the signs of getting crazy. Tell her to go to the doctor. If she is truly knocked up its DNA test time. If its yours make a decision from there but don't get involved until that is proven.

[CrackerTeg]

Plus, why put yourself through this shit Chris? Seriously dude. I know you cared for the chick at some point and you also care for her kid but that picture is another attempt by her to get you back after her fuckup. Where are the females of the forum to chime in on this one? Denny! Shelly! Get in here and back a brotha up!

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

Jebuz! What did i miss?!? Yikes! So she just sent you a picture of a positive test? How do you know it's hers for sure? Women can be twisted, manipulative demons. Tell her to go see a doctor, make sure it's for real, and if it's yours than you can cross that bridge when you come to it. If it's the dude she fell on than that's karma at it's best...

[timot_one]

I had a gf that would play the pregnancy scare game every once and a while.  Yes, she wasn't very stable and was only doing it for attention. 

Chris, it's best to take Mike's advice.  Once she's gone to a doctor for a real pregnancy test and it's positive, then it's DNA test time.  Until then, stay out of it. 

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

I don't get these girls! Where are their morals? Where's the little voice inside that alerts them to what's right and wrong?! How can they play with emotions and have no remorse or concept of what the outcome of their actions might be? Ugh!

[exelr8]

Same thing happened to a buddy of mine. She played the pregnancy scare that wasn't true using some other girls test. Two months later she hooked up with a dude she met at our cities trashiest night club who knocked her up. It was a big healthy dose of karma

[timot_one]

Denny, that's where the crazy part comes in.  Crazy uses no logic and has no morals.

[status]

Chris your a great dude. Follow what the elders say. Dna test should be a no brainer,  she cheated on you and what outta the blue she tells yoou hoping you come back on her like? Nay nay fuck her. Dna test homie.

[exelr8]

If she won't DNA test, take her to Maury!

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

If she won't DNA test, than she has something to hide...

[exelr8]

Sneaky hookers!

[Armyguy239]

No actually i ended up taking her back like a dumbass, it would def be mine...  She'd be about 3 weeks pregnant now.  Thats the last time we were together, before i sent her to her moms house, shit got bad and she was just causing problems, i completely broke up with her last week (why i went to JT's and got drunk off my ass and met some pretty awesome women) and we talk once every other day, since she is on my insurance until next week, and she owes me for the past bill.

 But yea i would still get dna test to be on the safe side...for the past two weeks she's been tellig me she was nauseous, had a headache, is always tired, and that she has been eating a little more then normal....

Thanks Alec, and thank you everybody for the advice

[CrackerTeg]

What the fuck dude? I wouldn't say its definitely yours based on her track record. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Period. Were it me, that doubt would hang in memory until the end of time. In this situation, I'd be wondering if it were mine or the other sperm donor. Food for thought bro.