ECM Chatroom

[Mike]

She was finally busy at work leave her alone

[ShellzV6]

i know geez lol i actually been thinking to much about this situation im in and how im screwed lol

[Fanitron]

  fine, I'll give you that one. Seriously though.. I wish I could wake up at 11:45 and still call it morning

[ShellzV6]

i  didnt wake up at 11:45 u weiner i been up since 6am i start work at 8:30am  :

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

How are you screwed?

[HEcreated487]

Morning all.  Yes, it's only 0649 HST, sooooo good afternoon to you EST peeps ...

BTW, also interested in the situation you're in Shellz.  I hope it's something that can be worked through

[Fanitron]

ahhh I c... my bad

yes, do tell... why are you screwed? hope it's not too bad...

[ShellzV6]

well ok guys check this out lol let me get ur views on what i should. i met this guy we been hanging out for a few days and when i first met him he told me he had a heart condition which i was fine with no biggie but i felt bad. las night we hung out and he tells me he has a neurological condition with a rod in his back and these two metal things in his chest that lead up his neck to his brain and hes got scars all over his body .. now i like him i think hes awesome but i feel like this is a bit much for me to take on i want to be his friend but i feel he wants more and i dont know what to do now?? any advice

[Fanitron]

wow that's harsh... it's kinda bad he didn't come clean with you right away, I mean it's one thing to hide like a hairy back or something but totally diff if it's gonna affect how he operates from day to day life. Honestly I'm a bit uncomfortable giving advice on this since I don't know you well enough and I definitely don't know this guy to be saying anything one way or the other... I do hope you can figure it out tho. Sorry for being no help

[ShellzV6]

haha no its ok i understand im just stuck im not a bad person but feels like alot for someone to take on. ill figure it out with time will see . but Thank u for trying lol

[gargantula99]

That's rough. Is it something you're willing to deal with?

[ShellzV6]

idk seems like alot to take on and eventually will get worse to the point where he cant drive or do much ne more which is the tough part for me its alot for me to take on im scared and dont wanna get myself into something i dont think i cna handle

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

All i can say is be true to yourself and be honest with him...being with him simply because you feel bad isnt enough...if you don't have romantical feelings for him than it's not good to force it...

[ShellzV6]

Thank u. i want to be his friend i dont wanna leave off on bad terms but i know once i tell him only friends hes not gonna wanna be my friend because hell think im a bitch or something u know.. but it is what it is i guess i dont wanna hurt him i think hes a great person just a bit much for me to take on

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

He'll appreciate your honesty...it would be worse if you strung him along...it wastes everyones time... good luck and i hope he understands and respects your wishes..