ECM Chatroom

[alpha]

Damn.. sorry to hear that Chris..

[Mike]

Ahhh... Sorry bud dont know what else to say

[CrackerTeg]

He's got his chin up. I talked with him a little while ago.

[Mike]

Thats good news!

[timot_one]

Some of us are crazy, manipulative,  play mind games, cheat, lie, and other unmentionables...I don't understand why girls suck so bad. If there's an issue just talk about it, why go through all this crap

Dudes are like that too.  Some people are just fucked up.  Not everyone is emotionally/mentally stable.

[Armyguy239]

thanks Z. Yup, I look back on just shy of a year wasted (me and her have a long history), after the initial shock and sadness died away, I truly find no heartache. If she didn't think I was worth staying around, even with everything we went through, and  what she put me through she isnt worth looking back on. And the funniest thing is, I moved over to the west coast about 2 hours from her house to find a job, and she was going to move over once I had got settled down. and I found something better. I have the opportunity to go to a very predominant college, get my licensing to be a nurse anesthesiologist, and go work for a very well known hospital down here where the pay starts off at a little over 120k/year ! and even better I had another girl instantly wanting to be in my arms, knowing and would appreciate the things i did, and she said SHE would take care of ME! rofl...sorry for the long paragraph

[Arielit0oo]

Get 'er done Chris!

[Fanitron]

Karma man.. good to hear you're doing well for yourself 

[Armyguy239]

smdh.... so right after i posted all that i got a couple texts from the ex, saying she needed to talk to me, that she was sorry, she didn't know what she was thinking about what she did did to me and hurt me. She can't stop crying and she feels like she is gonna do something stupid. that she doesn't know what she is going to do without me, she is "dumd" and stupid, yes, but she was lost in confusion. she needs me, she doesnt know what she is going to do, her and her son need me in both of their lives, and that i must hate her so much, and i have every right, she just doesnt know what to do... I lol'd

[Nit3h4wk C0uP3]

I think if you meant that much to her, she wouldn't have done what she did...don't fall for it! There should be consequences to her bad decisions! You don't need mind games! Sounds like she's setting a great example for her kid..sorry if i overstepped my boundaries ..this stuff gets me so mad because it didnt need to happen! Her actipns speak louder than her words >;(

[gargantula99]

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

[alpha]

thanks Z. Yup, I look back on just shy of a year wasted (me and her have a long history), after the initial shock and sadness died away, I truly find no heartache. If she didn't think I was worth staying around, even with everything we went through, and  what she put me through she isnt worth looking back on. And the funniest thing is, I moved over to the west coast about 2 hours from her house to find a job, and she was going to move over once I had got settled down. and I found something better. I have the opportunity to go to a very predominant college, get my licensing to be a nurse anesthesiologist, and go work for a very well known hospital down here where the pay starts off at a little over 120k/year ! and even better I had another girl instantly wanting to be in my arms, knowing and would appreciate the things i did, and she said SHE would take care of ME! rofl...sorry for the long paragraph

Take the opportunity!  You have an awesome opportunity to take care of yourself first.  There are times in life when someone should be selfish and take care of himself or herself first; in my opinion, this is one of those times.  Don't let opportunities that will help you reach overall life goals slip through the cracks.

FYI, it's Nurse Anesthetist..  But I'm digressing on a technicality.  Good luck!

[CrackerTeg]

I couldn't have said it better myself Mark. Chris, take Mark's advice.

[Armyguy239]

thanks Mark,Z, and yes, I am taking the opportunity. going to the school later today to get more info, and gettin the gi bill paperwork filled out

[Mike]

Good for you bud.